#AutismAwareness

  • RFK Jr. HHS Secretary, those offended, Levels 2-3 Autism Affects the Family

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    Honest conversations that include all autism experiences.

    How Levels 2-3 Autism Affects the Family

    Why is it that when someone speaks an uncomfortable truth about how severe autism affects families, so many rush to shut it down? 🤫

    Let’s be honest — families living with Level 2 and Level 3 autism are often carrying invisible weights. These aren’t just social quirks or a lack of awareness training. We’re talking about profound daily challenges that impact every area of life.

    We should be able to talk about what’s hard, what hurts, and what might help  without being shamed for it. Wanting to prevent suffering, or make our children’s lives more manageable, is not the same as rejecting who they are. It’s love in action. ❤️‍🩹

    The Statement That Ignited a Firestorm 🔥

    RFK Jr. is in the headlines again—this time for directly addressing the autism community in a way that has sparked intense reactions.

    During a recent appearance, Kennedy promised new studies with preliminary results expected by September, aiming to better understand the alarming rise in autism rates. He noted that in the early 2000s, autism affected 1 in 50 children. Today? It’s 1 in 36, with some reports citing 1 in 31. https://www.statista.com/statistics/1237464/autism-research-funding-united-states-by-nih/

    But it wasn’t these statistics that created the backlash. It was this statement:

    “Autism destroys families, and more importantly, it destroys our greatest resource, which is our children. These children who should not be suffering like this… These are kids who will never pay taxes, they’ll never hold a job, they’ll never play baseball, they’ll never write a poem, they’ll never go on a date, many of them will never use a toilet unassisted.”

    His words were blunt. They were uncomfortable. And yes, they hurt many in the autism community.

    But as a mother of a 27-year-old son with moderate autism and epilepsy, I need to say something that might be equally uncomfortable:

    For many families like mine, he wasn’t wrong. ❤️‍🩹

    How Levels 2-3 Autism Affects the Family: A Reality Many Don’t See 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

    I’ve spent decades in the trenches of autism—both as a mother and as a special education teacher. I’ve witnessed the spectrum in all its complexity. And I’ve watched autism rates climb steadily throughout my career, far beyond what “better diagnosis” alone could explain.

    The reality is that autism isn’t a monolith. It exists on a vast spectrum that includes:

    • Those who are verbal, employed, creative, and living independently
    • Those who need moderate support but can achieve meaningful independence
    • Those who require lifelong, 24/7 supervision and will never experience the milestones most take for granted

    My son Jacob falls into that last category. Despite decades of therapies, interventions, and unwavering love, he:

    • Cannot be left home alone 🏠
    • Will likely never live independently
    • Requires constant support for basic daily functions

    This isn’t because we haven’t tried. This isn’t because we don’t have hope. This is simply the reality of How Levels 2-3 Autism Affects the Family—a reality that’s exhausting, financially devastating, and yes, sometimes feels like it’s destroying the family unit. Autism Awareness Month! Parenting on the spectrum, no judgment here?🏝️

    Why We Feel Silenced: The Vaccine Conversation 🔇

    Let’s address the elephant in the room. Many parents like me have been effectively silenced when we mention our children’s dramatic regressions following vaccinations.

    To be clear: I’m not claiming all autism is caused by vaccines. I’m not even claiming my son’s autism was caused by vaccines. What I am saying is that many of us witnessed our children change dramatically after certain medical interventions. Maybe not the cause but there was harm. As parents we saw:

    • Children who had words suddenly lose them 💔
    • Children who made eye contact suddenly stop
    • Children who developed severe gut issues where none existed before
    • Children whose developmental trajectory took a sudden, dramatic turn

    And when we mention these observations—even gently, even as part of a complex conversation about multiple potential factors—we’re immediately dismissed with “correlation doesn’t equal causation” signs and accusations of being “anti-science.”

    But here’s what those critics don’t understand: We were there. We lived it. We watched our children change before our eyes.

    No one can prove to us that vaccines weren’t a contributing factor—just as no one can prove with certainty that they were. But dismissing our lived experience doesn’t help anyone, least of all our children who continue to suffer with communication barriers, sensory processing disorders, and medical complications.

    Government Transparency 🔍

    Another uncomfortable truth: many agencies that should be protecting us haven’t always been transparent about potential toxins in our medical interventions, foods, and environment.

    The history of public health is littered with examples of substances once declared “safe” that later proved harmful:

    • Lead in gasoline and paint ⚠️
    • Mercury in thermometers and dental fillings
    • Asbestos in building materials
    • Various pharmaceutical products later pulled from market

    I did whatever our doctor suggested when my boys were young because that’s how I was raised. I trusted the system completely. But over the years, my perspective has evolved as I’ve witnessed concerning patterns and learned more about regulatory oversight.

    It’s not “anti-science” to ask whether our regulatory agencies have been fully transparent about preservatives in vaccines, the dramatically expanded childhood vaccination schedule, or the cumulative effect of multiple interventions. It’s not wrong to wonder if we could do better as a country.

    RFK Jr.’s promise to investigate further doesn’t threaten neurodiversity—it threatens complacency. It challenges the notion that we should simply accept the status quo without asking hard questions about how we might prevent more families from experiencing what ours have.

    Beyond “Inclusion,Acceptance”: Why Some of Us Want More 🧩

    “Autism doesn’t need a cure, just acceptance and inclusion.”

    I’ve heard this refrain countless times and for some I believe that’s true. Their neurodivergence brings gifts along with challenges, and they rightfully want a world that appreciates their unique perspective.

    But for families like mine, dealing with the moderate-severe end of the spectrum, this sentiment feels dismissive of our daily reality.

    My son hasn’t been “robbed” of just social acceptance. He’s been robbed of:

    • The ability to tell me when something hurts 🗣️
    • The joy of a conversation where he can share his thoughts and feelings in detail
    • The comfort of eating without sensory issues making most foods intolerable
    • Freedom from obsessive-compulsive behaviors that consume hours of his day
    • Independence that others take for granted

    These aren’t just “quirks” that society needs to accommodate. They’re profound challenges that cause my child suffering every single day.

    Wanting to ease that suffering—wanting to understand what caused it and how we might prevent it in other children—doesn’t make me ableist. It makes me a mother who can’t bear to see her child struggle when perhaps those struggles could have been prevented.

    How autism affects the family goes far beyond needing more inclusive classrooms or workplace accommodations. For us, it means a lifetime of specialized care, medical interventions, behavior management, and constant supervision. It means planning for 50+ years of dependency and worrying what happens when we’re gone.

    The Moderate-Severe Autism Family Impact: Realities We Face Daily 📣

    When advocates called Kennedy’s comments “eugenic” or “setting the community back,” I have to ask: which community are they speaking for?

    Because while I celebrate every  person with autism leading a fulfilling, independent life, there’s another community being left behind in this conversation:

    • Parents changing adult diapers 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦
    • Siblings who’ve become default caregivers
    • Marriages crumbling under the financial and emotional strain
    • Families planning for 50+ years of dependent care
    • Schools struggling with limited resources for severe behaviors

    For us, acknowledging the devastating severe autism family impact isn’t offensive—it’s validating. It’s someone finally seeing our daily struggle.

    And when Kennedy promises research into environmental factors, rising rates, and potential causes, that’s not an attack on individuals with autism it’s offering hope to exhausted families desperate for answers. ✨

    Why “Just Genetics” Isn’t Enough 🧬

    The pushback against environmental research frustrates many parents like me. We’re told:

    “It’s just better diagnosis.” ❌ “It’s  genetic.” ❌ “We’re just more aware now.” ❌

    But those of us who’ve worked in education for decades have witnessed this explosion firsthand. I never saw these numbers of severely affected children when I began teaching. Now, special education classrooms are overflowing.

    While genetics may certainly play a role, the dramatic rise suggests something more complex at work, perhaps a gene-environment interaction that deserves serious investigation.

    The truth is, we know harmful substances exist in our environment, our food, and yes, sometimes in our medical interventions. These chemicals and compounds don’t affect everyone equally, some individuals are more susceptible based on their unique genetic makeup. Acknowledging this complex interplay isn’t anti-science; it’s the very essence of modern scientific inquiry.

    Wanting to understand why isn’t eugenic. It’s responsible.

    Moving Forward with Heart: Beyond the Division 💞

    I don’t write this to create more division in an already divided community. I write this because healing can only begin with honesty.

    For too long, parents of severely affected children have been silenced:

    • We’re told our observations about regression after medical interventions are invalid
    • We’re accused of not accepting our children when we seek to ease their suffering 😔
    • We’re labeled as “anti-science” for questioning whether environmental factors played a role
    • We’re told to focus solely on acceptance when our children need intensive interventions

    But we need to reclaim our voice, because our reality is valid too.

    Supporting research into environmental factors doesn’t mean we love our children any less. It means we want to prevent other families from facing the same struggles. It means we want better interventions for those already affected.

    And acknowledging the devastating aspects of how autism affects the family doesn’t diminish our children’s worth—it acknowledges their challenges and our sacrifices.

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    A Path Forward: Beyond the Signs and Slogans 🛣️

    Here’s what I believe we need:

    1. Honest conversation that acknowledges the full spectrum of autism experiences—from mild to profound 🗣️
    2. Respect for parents’ observations about their own children’s developmental history
    3. Comprehensive research into both genetic AND environmental factors—without political biases
    4. Better transparency from regulatory agencies about what goes into our bodies and environment
    5. Support for those who are suffering without accusations of being anti-neurodiversity
    6. Recognition that wanting to prevent suffering is not the same as devaluing those with autism

    Because at the end of the day, this isn’t about RFK Jr. or political affiliations. It’s not about being pro-vaccine or anti-vaccine. It’s about families like mine who are moving through each day with a smile, trying our best to improve our children’s lives while carrying burdens few can understand.

    To the Parents Experiencing Severe Autism Family Impact 💪

    If you’re reading this while exhausted from another sleepless night with your severely autistic child…

    If you’ve ever watched your child struggle to communicate basic needs… 😢

    If you’ve been dismissed when sharing observations about your child’s developmental regression…

    If you’ve been made to feel like you’re “part of the problem” for asking questions about environmental factors…

    I see you. Your experience is real. Your questions are valid. Your observations matter. 👏

    You’re not alone in feeling that parts of Kennedy’s statements—however imperfectly expressed—spoke to your lived reality.

    And you’re not wrong for wanting answers, research, and solutions while simultaneously loving your child exactly as they are.

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    Let’s Thrive Together in This Journey!

    Moving Forward Together 🤝

    We need an autism conversation that makes room for everyone:

    • Those thriving on the spectrum
    • Those moderately affected
    • Those severely impacted
    • The families supporting them all

    And most importantly, we need a conversation that respects parents’ right to share their observations and ask difficult questions without being labeled or dismissed.

    Because until we can honestly address the full reality of how all Levels of autism affects the family, including its most challenging presentations and potential cause we can’t truly support the entire community.

    It’s time to listen to ALL voices in this conversation, even when what they have to say makes us uncomfortable.

    If you’re raising a child who struggles every single day you’re not alone. If your child is like Jacob, and the world seems to forget about them I’m here for you. Join us inside Autism Thrive Tribe ✨, where we support each other through the challenges of how autism affects the family while celebrating every victory, no matter how small.

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  • How I take a Target $3 find and use for my autistic childs schedule!

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    You do not need a degree to teach your child with autism!

    Budget-Friendly Educational Tools

    Finding affordable and effective educational tools for autistic children can be a challenge, but as a special education teacher, I know where to look! The first few rows of products inside the door have super cute and cheap educational and fun items—puzzles, coloring books, sensory items, etc. As a broke teacher, I utilize many different shopping strategies to fill my classroom with fun and engaging items. 🛒📚

    The Hunt for Affordable Materials

    I’m always on the lookout for something that can be turned into an educational tool for Jacob’s daily/weekly schedule. This week, I found some amazing items that can be used for younger children. Since the prices for these items were only $3, I purchased more than one to make them into something more hands-on and engaging. 🎯🧩

    Budget-Friendly Finds

    Transforming these budget-friendly finds into effective educational tools for Jacob’s schedule is not only cost-efficient but also incredibly rewarding. It allows me to create personalized learning aids that cater specifically to Jacob’s needs and interests. 🛠️🌟

    Turning Budget Finds into Educational Activities

    I bought two sets of  Level 1 Readers that were a 2-book set and used one set to cut up and use pictures and sight words to be laminated. The laminated pieces can now be matched to the book the child is reading. This creates an interactive experience while reading the book! 📚✨

    See the video below: link to watch 👇 on YouTube https://youtu.be/YxBFpxHMumo?si=3Vab0VP4q2Xmse5i

    Interactive ABC Puzzles

    I also purchased some ABC puzzles that are plastic interlocking building blocks. You can purchase an upper case and lower case of the ABCs and match the lower to upper case in the schedule. 🧩🔤

    Watch the video: link to watch 👇 on YouTube https://youtu.be/HJm3xbfpIP0?si=HNAtSDGMRFiVPYcx

    Start Where Your Child Is

    These activities are used for younger children, and I used similar activities when Jacob was younger. Always start where your child is, no matter the age. Once your child has done the activity and understands what you are looking for, it can be added to the child’s daily independent work. 🌟🧒

    Visual Schedules and Consistency

    Creating schedules and activities that are easy to understand without a lot of language is crucial for the success of children with autism. Visual schedules provide a clear, predictable routine that helps reduce anxiety and build independence. When Jacob was younger, we relied heavily on visual aids and consistent routines to help him understand his day-to-day activities. Create an autism friendly summer schedule for your child!

    Benefits of Visual Schedules:

    – Reduces Anxiety: Knowing what to expect helps children with autism feel more secure and less anxious. Visual schedules provide a roadmap of their day, which can be incredibly calming. 🗓️✨

    – Builds Independence: Visual schedules enable children to follow routines on their own, fostering a sense of independence. Jacob learned to manage his tasks without constant verbal reminders, which boosted his confidence. Why teach chores for children with autism, how a schedule helps! 🌟🧩

    – Enhances Understanding: Many children with autism are visual learners. By using pictures and symbols, visual schedules cater to their strengths and improve their ability to grasp and follow routines. 📸🧠

    – Improves Communication: Visual schedules can bridge the communication gap for non-verbal or minimally verbal children. They offer a way for children to understand and express their daily activities without relying solely on spoken language. 🗣️🔇

    The Power of Consistency
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    Jacob has a zippered work bag labeled for each day of the week.

    Consistency is key when implementing visual schedules and activities for children with autism. It helps create a stable environment where children know what to expect, reducing the likelihood of meltdowns and behavioral issues.

    – Routine: Stick to a regular routine as much as possible. Using educational tools for autistic children creates engaging activities. Jacob thrived when his days followed a predictable pattern, allowing him to anticipate what was coming next. Something for teachers: https://www.kodable.com/learn/free-technology-tools-for-elementary-teachers🔄🕒

    – Repetition: Repeated exposure to the same activities and tasks helps reinforce learning. Over time, Jacob became proficient in his chores and daily activities because they were consistently part of his routine. 🔁📚

    – Clear Expectations: Consistency in rules and expectations helps children understand what is required of them. When Jacob knew exactly what was expected, he could complete his tasks with confidence. ✅🏅

    Today’s Tip and Strategy

    Utilizing budget-friendly educational tools for autistic children creates activities that do not need a lot of language. Incorporating them into visual schedules can significantly impact a child with autism’s ability to learn and thrive. The easy-to-understand activities, combined with consistency, allow parents to help their children develop essential life skills, reduce anxiety, and foster independence, which is our main goal.

    🧐Struggling with daily routines and meltdowns? 🌟 As an autism parent coach, I help you transform chaos into calm.🌟

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  • How Jacob’s Autism Makes Birthday Celebrations Unique on Autism Island.

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    Autism And Birthday Celebrations

    Life on Autism Island is a journey filled with its own set of adventures and challenges, even if it’s birthday celebrations! If you’ve been following my blog on Educating Jacob, you already know that living on Autism Island means embracing a world where every experience is as unique as the individuals who live here. Birthdays, in particular, stand out as special occasions that are celebrated differently from the mainstream yet are filled with love, laughter, and a touch of unpredictability. Here’s another post you can check out: https://hiblogimdad.com/2018/03/19/does-he-know-its-his-birthday/

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    Jacob loves Superman!

    A Unique Autism Birthday Celebration 🎉

    Jacob’s birthdays are a testament to how our family has adapted to the beautiful complexities of autism. Like any other child, Jacob eagerly anticipates his birthday. He loves the idea of having a party, but, as many autism parents can relate, traditional celebrations often don’t fit the mold.

    For instance, singing “Happy Birthday” is a ritual that comes with its own set of challenges. 🎶 While the song brings joy to many, for Jacob, it triggers a sensory overload that has him plugging his ears and pacing until it’s over. Despite this, he often wears a smile that warms my heart. 😊 It’s a reminder that he understands the specialness of the moment, even if he experiences it differently. 3 Ways Jacob’s Monthly Calendar and Daily Schedule Work on Autism Island!

    Navigating Sensory Issues 🌟

    Birthday parties often come with sensory challenges for children on the autism spectrum. Here’s how we address some of these issues to ensure Jacob has a joyful experience:

    1. Noise Sensitivity 🎵:
      • Problem: Loud noises like singing, clapping, or party horns can be overwhelming.
      • Solution: We use noise-canceling headphones to help Jacob manage the noise levels. Additionally, we keep the volume low and opt for soft music or nature sounds in the background.
    2. Visual Overstimulation 🎈:
      • Problem: Bright lights and busy decorations can be too much for Jacob.
      • Solution: We choose calming color schemes and avoid flashing lights. Gentle, natural lighting or soft fairy lights work wonders in creating a peaceful ambiance.
    3. Tactile Sensitivities 🎂:
      • Problem: Certain textures in food or decorations might be uncomfortable.
      • Solution: We involve Jacob in choosing party items. From the texture of the cake icing to the fabric of his clothes, we ensure everything feels just right for him.
    4. Unpredictable Situations ⏰:
      • Problem: Surprises or unexpected changes can be unsettling.
      • Solution: We prepare a visual schedule or a simple checklist so Jacob knows what to expect throughout the day. Having a “quiet corner” where he can retreat if things get overwhelming is also a great strategy.

    The Magic of a “Surprise Birthday” 🎁

    Jacob once told me he wanted a “surprise birthday.” It’s these little requests that showcase his unique perspective and make every celebration an adventure. Jacob often draws inspiration from movies or cartoons, which means every year brings a new theme that reflects his current interests.

    One year, it might be a superhero-themed celebration inspired by his favorite animated movie. 🦸‍♂️ The next, it might be something as whimsical as a cartoon character who’s captured his heart. 🦄 These themes make each birthday feel like a new chapter in our Autism Island adventure.

    Evolving Traditions 🥳

    When Jacob was younger, planning birthday parties was a bit easier. We invited close friends and family, and it felt more like a traditional celebration. However, as he’s grown older, the dynamics have changed. Those childhood friends who once joined our celebrations have moved on to lead their adult lives, and Jacob’s social circle has shifted.

    But this doesn’t stop us from creating memorable birthday and other celebrations. We’ve learned to adapt and make the most of what we have. Family dinners, decorations, and special movie nights have become our go-to traditions. 🍿 It’s about creating an environment that Jacob loves and feels comfortable in, which is often a quieter, more intimate gathering. 

    Life on Autism Island 🌍

    Living on Autism Island can sometimes feel isolating. It’s not just about being different from the rest of the world; it’s about embracing those differences and making them work for us. But please don’t mistake this for a sob story. We’re not on the brink of despair; rather, we’re thriving. Autism Awareness happened in April? Jacob’s Autism Education and schedule. 

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    Chaos to CALM!

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  • 4 Things I Wish I Would Have Known After Getting the Autism Diagnosis

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    We all need help and support on this autism journey.

    Autism Diagnosis Tips for Parents

    When I first heard the words “autism diagnosis” for Jacob, my world spun into chaos. I felt like I was fumbling through a fog, unsure of what to do or where to turn. I’m here to share autism diagnosis tips for parents. If you’re reading this, you’re likely on a similar journey, and I want to share four crucial lessons I’ve learned along the way. These strategies have been a beacon of hope and structure for our family, and I hope they can guide you too.

    Autism Tips for Parents Visual Schedules

    What I Wish I Knew:
    Visual schedules are a game-changer for children with autism. This is my big tip for parents getting an autism diagnosis.They provide structure and predictability, helping your child understand what to expect and when.📅 

    Why It’s Important:

    – Reduces Anxiety: Knowing what comes next helps your child feel more secure. For Jacob, having a clear visual schedule transformed his daily experience from chaos to calm. 🧘‍♂️

    – Improves Transition: Visual schedules make it easier for your child to move from one activity to another without meltdowns. Transitions became smoother for Jacob once we implemented this strategy. 🚦

    – Encourages Independence: Your child can learn to follow routines independently. Jacob learned to manage his own day, which boosted his confidence and autonomy. 🏆

    How to Implement:

    – Use images, symbols, or photos to create a daily schedule.
    – Keep it simple and consistent, especially at the beginning.
    – Gradually introduce more complex tasks as your child becomes comfortable.

    Tip: Start with a morning routine and build from there. Consistency is key!

     

    Build a Strong Support Network 👪

    What I Wish I Knew:
    You’re not in this alone! My next autism diagnosis tip for parents! Building a support network can make a huge difference for you and your child.

    Why It’s Important:

    – Emotional Support: Connect with other parents who understand your journey. This sense of community can be incredibly comforting. 🤝

    – Resource Sharing: Learn from others’ experiences and get advice on therapies and services. Other parents often have insights and tips that can be invaluable. 💡

    – Community Connection: Create a sense of belonging for your child and family. Having a support network helps everyone feel less isolated. 🌍

    How to Implement:

    – Join local and online autism support groups.
    – Connect with professionals who specialize in autism.
    – Reach out to family and friends for support.

    Tip: Don’t hesitate to ask for help when you need it. Support is a powerful tool!

     

    Prioritize Sensory-Friendly Environments 🧩

    What I Wish I Knew:
    Next, on my list of autism diagnosis tips for parents that battle sensory issues. Children with autism often have unique sensory needs. Creating a sensory-friendly environment can enhance your child’s comfort and ability to learn.

    Why It’s Important:

    – Enhances Focus: Reduces sensory overload, allowing your child to concentrate better. This was crucial for Jacob, who could become overwhelmed by certain stimuli. 🎯

    – Promotes Calmness: A calming environment helps regulate emotions and behavior. A peaceful setting can prevent or de-escalate potential meltdowns. 🌿

    – Supports Development: Sensory-friendly spaces can aid in learning and growth. Jacob thrived in an environment tailored to his sensory needs. 🌱

    How to Implement:

    – Identify your child’s sensory triggers and preferences.
    – Adjust lighting, noise, and textures in your home to suit your child’s needs.
    – Create a designated calm-down area with sensory tools and toys.

    Tip: A simple sensory bin or fidget toy can work wonders for self-regulation!

     

    Learn and Adapt with Your Child 📚
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    Consistency and confidence will come with action! Always learning.

    What I Wish I Knew:
    Every child with autism is unique, and so is their journey. Be prepared to learn and adapt as you discover what works best for your child. Read  👉🏼Autism Diagnosis: My Home Was in Chaos and I Felt Like a Terrible Mom!

    Why It’s Important:

    – Individualized Learning: No one-size-fits-all approach exists. Each child’s needs and strengths are different. Jacob taught us that flexibility and adaptation were key. 🔍

    – Continuous Growth: Your child will change and grow, and your strategies should evolve too. Stay open to new methods and insights. 🌈

    – Parental Empowerment: As you learn alongside your child, you’ll become more empowered and confident in your parenting skills. 💪

    How to Implement:

    – Stay informed about autism research and therapies.
    – Be open to trying new strategies and tools.
    – Embrace the journey and celebrate the unique qualities of your child.

    Tip: Keep a journal to track your child’s progress and reflect on your own growth as a parent. Celebrate your wins too!

     

    Applying the CALM Framework to Our Journey

    When Jacob was diagnosed, we developed our CALM framework to guide us through the challenges:

    1. Consistent Action Forward (C)
    – Build routines and stick to them. Consistency helps create a stable environment that reduces anxiety.

    2. Always Celebrate Wins (A)
    – Acknowledge every success, no matter how small. Celebrating milestones fosters a positive atmosphere.

    3. Learning to Create Schedules (L)
    – Use visual schedules to bring peace and order. They help your child understand their day and reduce stress.

    4. Mindset Matters (M)
    – Embrace the journey with a positive outlook. Remember, you are your child’s greatest advocate. How does mindset change things when raising a child with autism? 🧩

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    CALM over Chaos and frustration!
    Final Thoughts 🌟

    Last, on my list of autism diagnosis tips for parents Raising a child with autism is a journey filled with challenges and triumphs. By applying the CALM framework—Consistent Action, Always Celebrate Wins, Learning to Create Schedules, and Mindset—you can create a nurturing environment where your child can thrive. Remember, you’re not alone in this journey. Together, we can build a brighter future for our children. 💙 Here’s a blog post about an adult diagnosis: https://www.duchessofneverland.com/home/autism-diagnosis

    Feel free to share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below. Let’s support each other on this journey! 📢💬 Want more info, download the ebook! https://educatingjacob.myflodesk.com/tfgvkumbkg

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