How my husband changes Jacob’s bad mood with music! #musicandautism.
Change the Tune 🎶
Music and autism, my husband uses music to improve Jacob’s bad mood. When Jacob starts repeating negative or angst-filled movie quotes, music becomes our go-to tool to redirect his focus and uplift his spirits. 🎥➡️🎵
We’ve discovered that music he gets excited about—whether it’s tunes we enjoy together or soundtracks from his favorite movies—can work wonders. Below are a couple of playlists that Jacob loves when David is DJing. 🎧🎸
As parents of children with autism, especially those with limited language skills, finding effective ways to manage emotions and behaviors is crucial. The power of music is AMAZING! Last week, I shared how sign language has significantly helped Jacob. This week, I want to show you how music can also be a fantastic way to redirect a bad mood. 🎤
It’s hard to stay mad when you’re singing or dancing! Whether your child has expressive language delays or simply needs a mood boost, integrating music into your daily routine can create moments of joy and connection. 🌟
Join me as we explore the magic of music and how it can transform challenging moments into opportunities for fun and engagement. Check out previous posts:How does mindset change things when raising a child with autism? 🧩
The Challenge of Sarcastic Quotes 🎬
When Jacob seems to be stuck in a loop of sarcastic movie quotes, he’s intent on making sure everyone knows the mood he’s feeling. He’s not able to just explain himself or what’s going on inside, as he doesn’t have typical conversations. This can make it hard to understand his emotions and thoughts.
Using Positive Movie Quotes 🎥
We use movie quotes from happier parts of the story or ones he enjoys saying frequently. I’m pretty good at this, but his dad and brother are much better at movie quotes because they can really do the voices and impersonations well. 🎭
Activities and Music Therapy For Autism🎸
Jacob’s dad excels as the house DJ. Being a musician, he intuitively starts playing Jacob’s favorite upbeat songs to shift his mood. Here’s a blog post I found on music therapy: https://www.theautismpage.com/music-and-autism-music-activities-and-music-therapy/
Music therapy has real results with the population of children with autism spectrum disorder. Here is another source to see:http://chrome-extension://efaidnbmnnnibpcajpcglclefindmkaj/https://www.musictherapy.org/assets/1/7/MT_Autism_2012.pdf
Here are some playlists we use:
Upbeat Songs from Movies and Shows
- Water Buffalo – Veggie Tales
- Belly Button – Veggie Tales
- Pizza Angel – Veggie Tales
- Larry Boy (Rock On) – Veggie Tales
- In the Belly of the Whale – Jonah
Classic Rock Hits
- Don’t Bring Me Down – ELO
- Shining Star – Earth, Wind & Fire
- I Can Help – Billy Swan
- Somewhere Only We Know – Keane
Worship and Praise Songs
- I’m Not Ashamed – Newsboys
- Take Me To Your Leader – Newsboys
- Wherever We Go – Newsboys
- Shine – Newsboys
- In The Belly Of The Whale – Newsboys
This doesn’t come naturally to me, but it does for my husband. He plays guitar, and music is his go-to for himself and for Jacob. The rhythm and familiarity of the music work wonders in redirecting Jacob’s mood from negative to positive. Let’s learn how autism and music can work together to increase positive feelings🎶
Integrating Music into School 📚
Seeing how well music works with Jacob, I’ve started using YouTube at school, keeping music in the background. It can be challenging to find playlists with safe lyrics, so I stick with what I know. I don’t have time to vet all modern songs for lyrics, so I choose ones I’m certain are appropriate. 🎧
Music has a positive impact not just on Jacob but also on my students. It helps them, and me, get through the day with a better mood and more focus. Music and autism go together because it engages and can calm a child with autism, so give it a try!
The Influence of Music on Emotions 🎵
Music can influence your feelings toward movie characters, enhance drama, fear, and even happiness! At home, we use music to promote happiness or increase stamina for cleaning or working out. It’s a powerful tool for setting the tone and energy of any activity. 🏃♂️
The Mental Health Benefits of Music 🎧💆♀️
Music isn’t just beneficial for children with autism; it’s also a powerful tool for parents. Managing the complexities of raising a child with autism can be stressful and emotionally draining. Integrating music into your daily routine can be a great way to boost your mental health and overall well-being. 🌈
Increasing Positive Emotions
Listening to your favorite songs can elevate your mood and increase positive emotions. Whether it’s a song that brings back happy memories or an upbeat tune that gets you moving, music has the power to lift your spirits and bring a smile to your face. 😄
Decreasing Anxiety and Stress in autistic children
Music is also effective in decreasing anxiety and stress. Gentle, soothing music can create a calming environment, helping to lower stress levels and promote relaxation. For moments of high stress or when you need a break, playing calming music can be a quick way to reset and find peace. 🧘♀️
Choosing the Right Music
It’s important to choose music that will lift your mood and change your tune positively. Create playlists that include songs you love, whether they are relaxing instrumentals or energetic tracks. Here are some tips:
- Mood Boosters: Include songs that make you feel happy and energized.
- Relaxation Tracks: Add calming instrumentals or nature sounds for moments when you need to de-stress.
- Sing-Alongs: Include tracks that you can sing along to, as singing itself can be a great mood enhancer.
Music can be your ally in maintaining a positive mindset, even on challenging days. Embrace it as a tool for self-care and let it help you navigate the ups and downs of parenting. 🎶
Using Music for Autism Spectrum🎼
So, use your powers for good and use music to show love, happiness, or excitement. In our house, we also use music in a big way for worship. Jacob loves TobyMac, MercyMe, and many others to sing praise songs. It’s another way we connect and find joy together.🙌 #musicandautism #autismcoach
