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Autism meltdowns on Christmas break? You can use my CALM frameworks.
- December 18, 2024
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- by Melissa
We need more structure and a visual schedule.

Autism Meltdowns on Christmas Break? 🎄

The most wonderful time of the year—that’s what the song says, right? But for parents of children with autism, the holidays can sometimes feel like anything but wonderful. Sure, Jacob loves Christmas. He lights up when he sees his brother and other family members, and he gets excited about holiday traditions. But the overstimulation, changes in routine, and sensory challenges often lead to overwhelm, and that can quickly affect the whole family.

Over the years, we’ve learned how to navigate these challenges by using my CALM frameworks. 🎁 By creating visual schedules, accommodating sensory-friendly items, and planning ahead for potential triggers, we’ve made the holidays more enjoyable and less stressful for everyone.

For Jacob, the key is preparation. If he doesn’t understand his day, encounters uncomfortable sensory environments, or feels overwhelmed by too much change, meltdowns are inevitable. But with structure, redirection, and familiar routines, we’ve found ways to reduce anxiety and avoid many of the common holiday pitfalls. Autism and the Holidays: Shaping the Season with a Positive Mindset

In this post, we’ll explore the why, what, and how of managing autism meltdowns during Christmas break. From planning sensory-friendly activities to using visual schedules and calming strategies, I’ll share tips to help you have a Merry Christmas filled with calm and connection. 🎄💙 Let’s dive in!

This shows Jacob’s daily activities and sensory friendly clothes!

Use CALM Frameworks to Create a Merry Christmas 🎄

Christmas break can be a magical time, but for families of children with autism, it can also bring unique challenges. Meltdowns can arise for a variety of reasons—sensory overload, changes in routine, and the sheer unpredictability of the holidays. So, how do you manage the chaos and create a season that’s enjoyable for everyone?

In this post, I’ll share how we’ve used CALM frameworks to prepare for and navigate Christmas break with Jacob, transforming overwhelming moments into calm and joyful ones. You Have to Stop Freaking Out! Mindset for Autism Parenting.

What Causes Meltdowns During Christmas Break?

Every child with autism is different, so understanding your child’s specific needs is key. For Jacob, meltdowns often occur when:
- He doesn’t understand his day: Changes in routine or lack of structure make him anxious.
- Sensory challenges arise: Loud environments, itchy clothing, or crowded spaces can quickly overwhelm him.
- Communication breaks down: If he’s struggling to express himself, frustration builds.
These triggers can feel overwhelming for the whole family, but the good news is that planning ahead can make all the difference.

Planning ahead keeps you from being anxious too! Proactive is better.

Why Plan Ahead? 🎁

Planning ahead isn’t just helpful—it’s essential. Being proactive instead of reactive saves everyone from unnecessary stress.

When I didn’t plan ahead early in our journey, I often found myself scrambling to handle meltdowns as they happened. It was exhausting, chaotic, and hard on Jacob. Now, I focus on creating an environment and schedule that set him up for success.

Planning ahead means:
- Anticipating sensory needs: Have soft, tagless clothing and headphones ready.
- Using visual schedules: Jacob can see what’s coming next, reducing anxiety about the unknown.
- Including familiar items: Favorite toys, books, or activities provide comfort in unfamiliar situations.
- Building in consistency: Maintaining a routine helps Jacob feel safe and in control.
How to Use CALM Frameworks to Manage Meltdowns

The CALM frameworks are my go-to for navigating the complexities of autism parenting, especially during high-stress times like the holidays.

C: Consistent Structure and Schedules
- Visual schedules are non-negotiable for us. Jacob can see his day laid out, which helps him mentally prepare for any changes.
- Example: If we’re visiting family, the schedule includes leaving the house, time at the gathering, and when we’ll return home.
A: Accommodate Sensory Needs
- Create sensory-friendly environments. We bring headphones, favorite snacks, and fidgets to help Jacob stay comfortable.
- Example: Jacob’s sensory-friendly clothes are soft, tagless, and chosen ahead of time to avoid last-minute stress.
L: Learn to Redirect
- Redirection is a powerful tool for us. If Jacob begins quoting negative lines from a movie, we counter with happy quotes from the same film or switch to music he enjoys.
- Example: When Jacob started to look anxious during a family dinner, we pointed to his visual schedule to show him that a favorite activity was next.
M: Maintain a Positive Mindset
- Holidays can be overwhelming, but staying calm and patient sets the tone for everyone.
- Example: When plans don’t go perfectly, we focus on celebrating small wins—like Jacob enjoying a favorite Christmas movie or decorating cookies.
Tips for a Merry Christmas with Your Child with Autism
1. Prepare a Visual Schedule: Include daily activities, special events, and sensory breaks so your child knows what to expect.
2. Plan Ahead for Sensory Needs: Bring familiar items like headphones, a favorite blanket, or sensory toys.
3. Be Flexible: Even with the best plans, things happen. Be ready to pivot and adapt as needed.
4. Celebrate Small Wins: Focus on the moments of joy and progress, no matter how small they may seem.
5. Lean on Your Support System: Whether it’s family, friends, or online communities, having support makes a world of difference.
Plan ahead, use visual schedules and experience a joyful Christmas!

From Chaos to Calm: A Holiday to Remember 🎄

Holidays can be stressful, but they can also be full of joy, growth, and connection. By planning ahead, accommodating sensory needs, and using the CALM frameworks, you can create a Christmas break that’s memorable for all the right reasons. Here is a post I found that addresses food 👉 https://www.jennyfriedmannutrition.com/how-to-improve-autism-picky-eating/

Let’s make this holiday season one of calm and connection—for you, your child, and your family. 🌟 Merry Christmas from our family to yours! 💙

🧐Struggling with daily routines and meltdowns? 🌟 As an autism parent coach, I help you transform chaos into calm.🌟

📅Schedule a discovery call

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Let’s work together to create a structured, peaceful home where your child can thrive.📚

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Why buying Christmas presents can be hard when the child has autism.
- December 11, 2024
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- by Melissa
#presentsandautism

Christmas Presents for a Child with Autism Can Be Hard(And How to Make It Easier!)🎁

Ah, the holiday season – filled with joy, festivities, and the sometimes daunting task of buying the perfect Christmas presents. 🎄 But what if your gift recipient is a child with autism? The adventure takes on a whole new level of complexity. Imagine “Jingle All the Way,” but instead of Turbo Man, you’re hunting for sensory-friendly clothes, very specific DVDs, or the perfect gift card. Trust me, as Jacob’s mom, I’ve been on this ride, and it’s one I’ll never forget! Help! 3 Ways a schedule can help sensory issues and communication barriers? #Autism Challenges🧩

This year, let’s navigate the maze of holiday gift-giving with empathy, patience, and practical tips. By applying strategies from Educating Jacob’s CALM framework, you’ll discover how to turn gift-giving into a source of joy instead of stress.

#limitedinterests

Limited Interests, Maximal Specificity 🎬

Jacob, like many children with autism, has some pretty specific interests. For him, it’s all about movies, but not just any movies. Oh no, we’re talking about films from the early 2000s with a certain cover from a specific year. Sounds challenging, right? It is. So, when we go shopping for Jacob, we’re on a mission – Amazon first, and if that doesn’t cut it, a detour to eBay might just save the day. The upside? We usually score a good deal. The downside? Jacob is as particular as a Michelin-starred chef. If it doesn’t meet his criteria, it’s a no-go, no matter how close it is to what he wants. You see, for kids like Jacob, the world isn’t just black and white; it’s an entire spectrum of details that matter. So, if the copyright date on the DVD doesn’t match his expectations, well, let’s just say, it’s going back to the seller faster than you can say “Santa Claus”!

C: Consistency in Gift-Giving 🎁

For children like Jacob, consistency is key. He thrives on routine, and the holidays can feel overwhelming with so many changes and surprises. Jacob, like many children with autism, has specific and limited interests. For him, it’s all about movies—but not just any movies. We’re talking about films from the early 2000s with a particular cover or copyright date. If those details don’t match, it’s a no-go, no matter how similar the item might be.
- Example: One Christmas, we scoured Amazon and eBay to find a DVD he wanted but only from a specific year. While it seemed trivial at first, we realized how much these details mattered to him. That DVD wasn’t just a movie—it was his way of finding comfort in predictability.
- Tip: Stick to what you know works. If your child loves puzzles, find one similar to their favorite. If they have specific interests, dig into the details to make it a hit.
#sensoryissues

A: Always Celebrate Their Preferences 🎬

Jacob’s favorite things aren’t just hobbies; they’re anchors of familiarity and joy. Whether it’s a Chick-fil-A gift card or a beloved Marvel hoodie, honoring his preferences shows him that his needs matter.
- Example: Gift cards have become a hit in our home! Jacob loves the independence of choosing his own items. He lights up when he gets to flash a gift card and pick something he truly wants.
- Old Insight: One year, his grandmother gave him a beautifully illustrated book with a sentimental note written inside. It should have been perfect, but Jacob rejected it because it didn’t match his expectation of a “new” book. It wasn’t about being ungrateful; it was about needing sameness.
- Tip: Observe closely and tailor gifts to their preferences. If they love trains, make sure it’s their type of train, not just any train.
#sameness

L: Learn to Adapt for Sensory Needs 🧦

Buying clothes for Jacob is like navigating a minefield of textures, tags, and seams. If it’s not soft and tagless, it’s a no-go.
- Example: One year, we found a hoodie with Jacob’s favorite character, but the material wasn’t quite right. Lesson learned! Now, we always check fabrics carefully to avoid any sensory discomfort.
- Old Insight: Even when we think we’ve nailed it, there’s still a chance it might not meet Jacob’s sensory standards. The texture might be off, or the stitching might feel scratchy to him. It’s not ungratefulness—it’s just autism at play.
- Tip: For clothing or tactile gifts, let your child feel the fabric or test it before purchasing. This small step can make a world of difference.
M: Mindset Makes the Holiday Bright 🌟

One of the most important things I’ve learned is to approach the holidays with a calm and positive mindset. The perfect gift might not exist, but the perfect moment does—when your child feels loved and understood.
- Example: One Christmas, Jacob refused to accept a beautifully illustrated book because someone had written inside it. It wasn’t rejection; it was his need for sameness. Instead of being upset, we adapted by ensuring all future books stayed “pristine.”
- Old Insight: Another time, Jacob was thrilled with a Thomas the Train set—until he realized it didn’t include the exact engine he envisioned. We learned to communicate with him about expectations before surprises to avoid disappointment.
- Tip: Expect the unexpected and focus on your child’s joy, not perfection. Be patient, and know that it’s okay to adjust on the fly.
#ChristmasWithAutism https://educatingjacob.com/3-ways-to-help-your-child-with-autism-enjoy-christmas-without-meltdowns-and-anxiety/

Tips and Strategies for Autism-Friendly Holiday Shopping
1. Stick to Familiar Favorites
  - Lean into the things your child already loves. Specific toys, books, or shows are a great starting point.
2. Prioritize Sensory-Friendly Options
  - Look for tagless, soft, and seamless clothing or tactile gifts that suit your child’s sensory preferences.
3. Consider Gift Cards for Independence
  - Let your child pick their own gift! Whether it’s Amazon, Target, or a local favorite, gift cards empower them with choice.
4. Plan Ahead with Visual Schedules
  - Add holiday activities like shopping or gift-opening to your child’s visual schedule to prepare them for changes in routine.
5. Embrace Simplicity and Joy
  - It’s not about the cost or size of the gift. It’s about the love, effort, and understanding you bring to the experience.
The Gift of Love and Understanding 🎄

Buying Christmas presents for a child with autism is no easy task, but it’s one filled with opportunities for growth, connection, and love. By applying the CALM framework—consistency, celebrating preferences, adapting for sensory needs, and embracing a positive mindset—you can create a holiday season filled with joy and understanding.

Now that the challenge of Christmas shopping for a child with autism is over, especially if you’re looking for ways to make Christmas more enjoyable. Check out last year’s post, ‘3 Ways To Help Your Child With Autism Enjoy Christmas Without Meltdowns And Anxiety,’ we explored strategies for a smoother holiday season. https://educatingjacob.com/3-ways-to-help-your-child-with-autism-enjoy-christmas-without-meltdowns-and-anxiety/

🧐Struggling with daily routines and meltdowns? 🌟 As an autism parent coach, I help you transform chaos into calm.🌟

📅Schedule a discovery call

👉🏼 Schedule here 🔗

Let’s work together to create a structured, peaceful home where your child can thrive.📚

Book a coaching session today and start seeing real, positive changes in your family’s life! 💙

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Why?My heart breaks watching autism parents living in chaos and crying!
- December 4, 2024
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- by Melissa
Slow and Steady Wins the Race!

Parents Living in Chaos

💔 As an autism mom, I’ve been there. I’ve felt the overwhelming heartbreak of not knowing how to ease my child’s anxiety, prepare them for family gatherings, or navigate sensory overload moments. Watching videos of parents struggling through Thanksgiving meltdowns or chaotic outings brings back memories of my own journey, and it breaks my heart.

But here’s what I’ve learned over 27 years with Jacob: there is a better way. 🌟 With the right tools, mindset, and a few autism parenting tips, you can help your child understand boundaries, manage emotions, and embrace changes with less stress. It’s not magic, and it doesn’t happen overnight—but slow and steady wins the race. 🐢

One of the most important lessons I learned early on was that Jacob would eventually grow bigger and stronger than me, so he needed to understand consequences and acceptable behavior while he was young. Autism isn’t an excuse for aggression or bad behavior—it’s an opportunity to teach and guide, helping your child thrive within the structure of love and boundaries. https://theautismcafe.com/raising-a-non-verbal-child-i-wouldnt-change-you-for-the-world-but/#google_vignette

If you’re stuck in the chaos, overwhelmed by daily routines, and unsure how to manage tricky interactions with extended family or in the community, this post is for you. Let’s explore how to create calm, guide behavior, and bring peace to your family life. When we know better, we do better. 🌈 Together, we can move from chaos to calm. 💙

I’m here, sharing my story, so you don’t have to start from scratch.

From Reactive to Calm

Parenting a child with autism is a journey filled with challenges, growth, and moments that test your patience and strength. 💙 I’ve been there—reactive, overwhelmed, and unsure how to guide Jacob through his meltdowns and behaviors. But over the years, I’ve discovered tools and strategies that have transformed our home, starting with one of the most powerful: visual schedules. 🧩

In this post, I’ll share how we went from a young, reactive mom with no plan to a family that thrives with the help of visual schedules. Along the way, you’ll see how these tools became our way to communicate, reduce anxiety, and give Jacob the independence and confidence he craved.

A Young, Reactive Mom: Learning the Hard Way

When Jacob was first diagnosed, I was heartbroken. 💔 I didn’t know how to communicate with him or help him navigate his day. Without a plan, chaos ruled our home. I remember one particular trip to Walmart vividly. Jacob was cutting up in the cart, making my shopping experience miserable. I was frustrated, overwhelmed, and unsure of how to handle the situation. Stop trying old parenting! We Create Autism-friendly family traditions!

That day, my young, reactive self grabbed a ping-pong paddle from the sporting goods section, marched Jacob to the bathroom, and gave him a couple of pats on the bottom. 🏓 It wasn’t my proudest moment, but it was where I was at the time—reacting to his behavior instead of teaching him how to manage it.

As time went on, I realized this approach wasn’t sustainable. Jacob was growing, and I knew I had to find better ways to guide him, especially since he couldn’t understand long sentences or process complex language. I needed a way to communicate effectively with him that didn’t rely on words.

I learned to put together a visual schedule and activities!

The Turning Point: Discovering Visual Schedules

One day, I read a story about a 15-year-old autistic child who had a meltdown in a theme park gift shop. 🎢 He was overwhelmed, and his mom was powerless to stop it. That story hit me hard. I didn’t want that to be Jacob’s future. I knew I needed to teach him consequences and help him understand his day in a way that made sense to him.

When I pulled Jacob out of school to homeschool him, I discovered visual schedules. At first, I didn’t see how they could help. I thought, “How can creating little activities and a schedule make a difference when I can’t even have a conversation with my child?” 🤔

But I gave it a try, and it changed everything.

Visual schedules were a game changer and reduced anxiety.

Why Visual Schedules Work
1. They Reduce Anxiety 🛑
  Visual schedules show Jacob what to expect in his day, eliminating the uncertainty that often triggers meltdowns. When he sees his day laid out in simple steps, he feels more in control.
2. They Build Independence 🚀
  By giving Jacob a visual guide for his daily tasks, he learned to complete them on his own. Over time, this gave him the confidence to tackle new challenges.
3. They Foster Communication 💬
  Jacob struggles with language and long sentences, but visual schedules became our way to “talk.” They gave him choices and allowed him to understand expectations without feeling overwhelmed.
Building Structure and Consequences

Once we had visual schedules in place, we added routines and built-in consequences. If Jacob had a great week, he earned rewards like ordering a movie or game from Amazon on Fridays. 📦 If it wasn’t a good week, he didn’t get the reward, and we used the visual schedule to help him understand why.

For example:
- If Jacob didn’t complete his independent tasks, he would lose screen time for the evening. 📱
- On challenging days, we’d point to something fun on the schedule, like decorating cookies 🍪 or watching a favorite movie 🎥, to redirect his energy and keep him motivated.
The Transformation: A Calmer, Happier Family

Visual schedules didn’t just help Jacob—they helped our entire family. The consistency gave us peace of mind, and the predictability allowed Jacob to thrive. Over time, I noticed fewer meltdowns, more independence, and a happier child who felt understood and supported. 🌟

Today, Jacob’s visual schedule includes everything from daily chores to sensory breaks and special activities. He knows what to expect, and if something changes, he can see how it fits into his day. This structure has been life-changing for him and for us as parents. How to achieve CALM on Autism Island, daily life on the spectrum.

Tips for Starting Visual Schedules
1. Start Small 🌱
  Begin with tasks your child already knows and enjoys. Build confidence before adding more challenging items to the schedule.
2. Be Consistent 🔄
  Stick with the schedule every day. Even when it feels tough, consistency is key to building trust and reducing anxiety.
3. Celebrate Wins 🎉
  Acknowledge every success, no matter how small. Jacob loves his Amazon rewards on Fridays, but for younger children, a sticker chart or high-five can work wonders.
4. Adapt as Needed 🔧
  If something isn’t working, don’t be afraid to tweak the schedule. Remember, it’s a tool to support your child, not a rigid rulebook.
Why Visual Schedules Matter

Visual schedules are more than just a parenting tool—they’re a bridge to better communication, reduced anxiety, and a calmer, more joyful home. They’ve allowed Jacob to learn, grow, and thrive in ways I never imagined when we first started this journey. Heartbreak to Hope: A Mom’s Mission Teaching and Learning Autism.

So, if you’re feeling overwhelmed and unsure of where to start, I encourage you to try visual schedules. They transformed our lives, and I believe they can transform yours too.

You’ve got this, mama. Slow and steady wins the race, and I’m here to cheer you on every step of the way. 💙

🧐Struggling with daily routines and meltdowns? 🌟 As an autism parent coach, I help you transform chaos into calm.🌟

📅Schedule a discovery call👉🏼 contact 🔗

Let’s work together to create a structured, peaceful home where your child can thrive.📚

Book a coaching session today and start seeing real, positive changes in your family’s life! 💙

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This too shall pass, how we changed our mindset on autism island!
- November 20, 2024
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- by Melissa
Mindset and faith are foundational! 2Corinthians 4:17-18

How We Changed Our Mindset on Autism

Life as a parent of a child with autism often feels overwhelming, exhausting, and filled with challenges that seem insurmountable. But over the years, I’ve learned that the mindset for autism parents is not just important—it’s foundational. It’s the key to shifting from chaos to calm and creating a path forward for both your child and your family. How does mindset change things when raising a child with autism? 🧩

To develop the right mindset, you need to face your biggest challenges head-on and understand why having a plan is critical. The how comes from taking action and learning from others who’ve walked this journey and can offer guidance and support. As parents, we can’t control every situation, but we can control how we respond, and that begins with our mindset.

A verse from 2 Corinthians 4:17-18: “For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all. So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen.” These words have reminded me to focus on faith, growth, and the hope that keeps us moving forward. You won’t stay in the happy moments forever or the tough moments forever, keep moving forward, This too shall pass!

In this week’s blog post, I’ll share how we shifted our mindset from frustration and fear to calm and confidence. In EducatingJacob’s CALM strategies, the “M” stands for Mindset, and it’s the foundation of everything we do. A positive mindset is integral to your confidence as a parent and your ability to guide your family through the complexities of autism. Let’s explore how this simple shift can transform your journey and bring peace to your home. 🌈

Mindset for Autism Parents

When Jacob was diagnosed with autism, I was paralyzed by fear. I couldn’t see past the overwhelming reality and uncertainty of what life would look like for our family. I had always been a mom who tackled everything with enthusiasm, but this was different—I was blindsided. The future felt like an insurmountable mountain, and I had no idea how to climb it.

But here’s what I’ve learned: mindset is the foundation for everything. It’s the starting point for creating calm in your home, confidence in yourself, and joy in the everyday wins. Through EducatingJacob’s CALM framework, I’ve discovered that when parents focus on mindset, they unlock the ability to grow and thrive—not just for their child, but for the entire family. How to achieve CALM on Autism Island, daily life on the spectrum.

Have faith, journal so you can see your journey.

From Fear to Acceptance: A Mindset Shift

When our autism journey began, I moved fairly quickly from denial to acceptance, but fear still lingered. I worried about Jacob’s future and questioned whether I had the ability to help him thrive like I had with our first son.

At the recommendation of professionals, I enrolled Jacob in preschool and later in kindergarten. Preschool was rough—meltdowns were constant, and the teachers didn’t know how to manage his behaviors. Kindergarten was a little better; the self-contained classroom and a caring teacher made a difference. But progress was slow.

It was clear to me that Jacob needed more individualized attention, and I felt called to step in. I quit my job and began homeschooling Jacob and his older brother. Though it was a hard decision, it was the first step in reclaiming my confidence as a parent and helping Jacob in a way that felt right for him.

Building Confidence Through Action

Over time, I realized that confidence doesn’t come all at once—it builds with every decision, every step forward, and every win, no matter how small. For me, this journey included going back to school for a master’s degree in special education while working third shift at the hospital. I wanted to not only help Jacob but also make a difference for other children like him.

The exhaustion was real, but with each decision, my confidence grew. As I learned more about Jacob’s specific needs—his sensory challenges, communication barriers, and resistance to change—I began to see that we couldn’t raise him the same way we raised his brother. Jacob needed an environment tailored to his unique way of thinking and learning.

Why Mindset Matters for Growth

A positive mindset became the cornerstone of everything we did. Once I let go of my fear and self-doubt, I could focus on creating plans and strategies that truly worked for Jacob. This wasn’t about perfection; it was about progress.
- Mindset shifts help you face challenges calmly. Instead of reacting emotionally to meltdowns, I began to see them as opportunities to understand Jacob better.
- A strong mindset builds resilience. Autism parenting isn’t easy, but when you approach each day with determination and faith, you gain the strength to tackle even the hardest moments.
- Mindset transforms your family life. When I shifted my focus from fear to hope, our home became a calmer, happier place, where Jacob could grow and thrive.
Use the CALM frameworks and celebrate all wins!

The Role of CALM in Mindset

In the CALM framework, mindset is the “M” for a reason. It’s the foundation that supports everything else: structure, routines, communication, and growth. Here’s how mindset fits into the bigger picture:

C: Consistent Action Forward – Progress happens one small step at a time. Mindset helps you take those steps without becoming overwhelmed.

A: Always Celebrate Wins – A positive mindset allows you to see and celebrate the small victories, which build momentum and confidence.

L: Learning to Create Schedules – A strong mindset helps you implement tools like visual schedules with patience and determination.

M: Mindset is the Glue – It keeps you grounded, focused, and ready to adapt as your child grows and changes.

Taking Care of Yourself

One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned is that taking care of myself is just as important as taking care of Jacob. Autism parenting is challenging, and burnout is real. Whether it’s finding support from other parents, taking a quiet moment for yourself, or leaning on faith, self-care isn’t selfish—it’s necessary.

Support can come in many forms:

Family and friends who understand your journey

Support groups where you can connect with others

Coaching or mentorship from someone who’s been where you are

Remember, you can’t pour from an empty cup. By taking care of yourself, you’re better equipped to take care of your child and your family.

Moving Forward: Mindset for Autism Parents

Changing your mindset doesn’t happen overnight, but it’s the most important step in moving forward. For Jacob, a tailored plan, consistent routines, and my renewed confidence helped him thrive. And for me, seeing his progress has been the most rewarding part of this journey.

If you’re feeling stuck or overwhelmed, start small. Shift your mindset from fear to hope by focusing on what you can do today. Celebrate every win, no matter how small, and remind yourself that you are the best advocate and teacher your child will ever have.

With the right mindset, you can create a home filled with calm, joy, and growth for your entire family. You’ve got this, and you’re not alone—I’m here to walk this journey with you.

Get a plan and start messy! Celebrate all wins.

Tips for Building a Stronger Mindset

Embrace Progress Over Perfection: Focus on small wins and let go of the need for everything to be perfect.

Find Your Support Network: Connect with others who understand your journey, whether through local groups or online communities.

Celebrate the Wins: No matter how small, every step forward deserves recognition.

Take Care of Yourself: Prioritize your own mental and emotional health so you can show up fully for your child.

Have Faith in Your Journey: Remind yourself that challenges are temporary, and growth is always possible.

Let’s move forward together—one step, one mindset shift, and one win at a time. 🌈

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Autism Meltdowns on Christmas Break? 🎄

What Causes Meltdowns During Christmas Break?

Why Plan Ahead? 🎁

How to Use CALM Frameworks to Manage Meltdowns

C: Consistent Structure and Schedules

A: Accommodate Sensory Needs

L: Learn to Redirect

M: Maintain a Positive Mindset

Tips for a Merry Christmas with Your Child with Autism

From Chaos to Calm: A Holiday to Remember 🎄

🧐Struggling with daily routines and meltdowns? 🌟 As an autism parent coach, I help you transform chaos into calm.🌟

Christmas Presents for a Child with Autism Can Be Hard(And How to Make It Easier!)🎁

Limited Interests, Maximal Specificity 🎬

C: Consistency in Gift-Giving 🎁

A: Always Celebrate Their Preferences 🎬

L: Learn to Adapt for Sensory Needs 🧦

M: Mindset Makes the Holiday Bright 🌟

Tips and Strategies for Autism-Friendly Holiday Shopping

The Gift of Love and Understanding 🎄

🧐Struggling with daily routines and meltdowns? 🌟 As an autism parent coach, I help you transform chaos into calm.🌟

Parents Living in Chaos

From Reactive to Calm

A Young, Reactive Mom: Learning the Hard Way

The Turning Point: Discovering Visual Schedules

Why Visual Schedules Work

Building Structure and Consequences

The Transformation: A Calmer, Happier Family

Tips for Starting Visual Schedules

Why Visual Schedules Matter

🧐Struggling with daily routines and meltdowns? 🌟 As an autism parent coach, I help you transform chaos into calm.🌟

How We Changed Our Mindset on Autism

Mindset for Autism Parents

From Fear to Acceptance: A Mindset Shift

Building Confidence Through Action

Why Mindset Matters for Growth

The Role of CALM in Mindset

Taking Care of Yourself

Moving Forward: Mindset for Autism Parents

Tips for Building a Stronger Mindset

🧐 Struggling with daily routines and meltdowns? 🌟 As an autism parent coach, I help you transform chaos into calm by creating strategies that work for your family. 🌟

Go from meltdowns to happy kids!

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🧐 Struggling with daily routines and meltdowns?
🌟 As an autism parent coach, I help you transform chaos into calm by creating strategies that work for your family. 🌟