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  • 3 Top Challenges of having an adult son with autism.#autismchallenges🧩

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    I’m diving into the  3 top challenges I’ve faced having an adult son with autism. To my fellow parents, I know you feel my pain! 🌟 Ever feel like you’re juggling flaming swords while riding a unicycle? 🤹‍♂️ Welcome to the wild world of parenting an adult child with autism! So grab your coffee, take a seat, and let’s navigate this adventure together! 💙 #autismchallenges🧩

     

    Challenge #1: Keeping Reliable Care for Jacob While We Work

     

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    Challenge #1: Keeping Reliable Care for Jacob While We Work!

     

    Ah, the eternal quest for trustworthy care for our adult child with autism! 🌟 It’s like searching for a unicorn in a marvel movie, am I right? But fear not, fellow adventurers, for we are armed with perseverance and strength! 🦄

     

    Entrusting Jacob’s care to others feels like sending him off on a grand quest without a map or a guidebook. 🗺️ It’s nerve-wracking, to say the least! But hey, we’re not alone in this journey. We’ve enlisted the help of a company that hires background-checked individuals. Yet, even with this safety net, the anxiety lingers like an unwelcome guest at a party. Try well-known agencies like the Autism Society, https://www.autismsociety-nc.org/#

     

    And let’s talk about the perpetual juggling act of work and caregiving. 🤹‍♂️ It’s like trying to tame a lion while balancing on a tightrope! But fret not, my friends, for there’s a legal safeguard in the form of FMLA (Family and Medical Leave Act). Just to make sure you are not fired because you have to care for your child. It’s like our superhero cape, offering protection against the evil clutches of employment uncertainty. 💼✨

     

    Check out the government website here: https://www.dol.gov/agencies/whd/fmla

     

    Alright Autism adventurers, take heart! While the road may be rocky, and the challenges daunting, we shall overcome with resilience, determination, and maybe a dash of caffeine! ☕️ Onward, to victory! 🚀 #AutismAwareness 🧩

    Challenge #2: Navigating the Absence Abyss

    What happens when your adult son with autism has caregivers out sick?

     

    Ah, the dreaded sick days saga!  It’s like a whirlwind of chaos that sweeps through our carefully crafted plans, isn’t it? But fear not, for in the face of adversity, we emerge as champions of resilience and adaptability!🤒

     

    When your child’s caregiver calls in sick, and suddenly, you’re thrust into a frantic scramble to find a replacement. It’s like trying to solve a Rubik’s Cube blindfolded! But alas, finding someone who can step into your child’s world at a moment’s notice is like searching for a needle in a haystack. 🧩

     

    In the blink of an eye, FMLA becomes our lifeline, our legal shield against the unpredictability of caregiving. It’s like summoning reinforcements to fortify our defenses in the battle against chaos! 💼

     

    Amidst the challenges, the Autism Society stands as a beacon of hope, striving to bridge the gap between need and accessibility. They have introduced Jacob to other workers so that in a moment of need, someone can step in and help. This works only if there’s enough notice. Let’s not forget the logistical nightmare of living outside city limits.  It’s like being stranded on a desert island with limited resources,#AutismIsland!🚗

     

    So, fellow warriors, take a deep breath and summon your inner zen. 🌟 Though the road may be rocky when you have an adult son with autism. The challenges aplenty, we shall prevail with perseverance, humor, and maybe a splash of “Calgon 🛁 take me away” for good measure!  #AutismAwareness 🧩 Ways to have peace? Creating time for yourself, not just your child with autism.

    Challenge #3: Crafting the Perfect Environment for Success

     

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    Ah, the noble quest for the holy grail of productivity and success!  It’s like embarking on a grand adventure through the labyrinth of chaos, armed with nothing but schedules and calendars as our trusty companions.🏆

     

    Amidst the whirlwind of life, we forged a sanctuary of learning and tranquility for our adult son with autism.  With schedules as our guiding stars, chaos retreated like a defeated dragon, and productivity flourished like wildflowers in spring.🌟

     

    A Collaborative Journey to Success

     

    But here’s the twist: success wasn’t just for Jacob alone; it was a team effort!  We shared our secrets of structure and success with the brave souls entrusted with Jacob’s care, transforming them into allies in our noble quest.💪

     

    And oh, the sweet relief when chaos was banished from our absence!  With a rock-solid foundation of understanding and structure, Jacob’s days unfolded like a well-rehearsed symphony, each note harmonizing with the next in a blissful melody of productivity.🌪️

     

    But let’s not forget the cardinal rule of parenting: consistency is key! Check out this previous  blog post: Help! 3 Ways a schedule can help sensory issues and communication barriers? #Autism Challenges🧩 Like master craftsmen, we meticulously crafted a framework of structure and procedures, ensuring that every interaction and every moment was a stepping stone on the path to success. 🔑

     

    So, dear comrades in arms, do not fear the daunting task before you! 🛡️ With a dash of consistency, a sprinkle of structure, and a hearty dose of determination, you too can forge an environment where success blooms like a garden in the sun. 🌷 #ParentingSuccess 🌈

    Want more tips? Download my free guide: https://educatingjacob.myflodesk.com/o01di34gwl

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  • How do we celebrate April as Autism Awareness Month?#autismchallenges🧩

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    Jacob completing tasks from an early schedule.

    How do we celebrate Autism Awareness Month? Celebrating means more than just rocking blue shirts—it’s about making memories with our kids! I will have blue balloons and special snacks, to make it memorable for Jacob then add some flair to our porch with a blue light bulb. 3 ways American Sign Language helped my son with autism speak in short sentences? Jacob may not get it all, but he’s always up for a party! Any excuse to order a new cool shirt too!🎉 #AutismAwareness 🧩

    Shining a Light on Autism

    In April, the world unites to shine a spotlight on Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) during Autism Awareness Month. This global initiative aims to increase understanding, acceptance, and support for individuals with autism. 🔵🌟

    During Autism Awareness events, educational events, fundraisers, and advocacy campaigns take place worldwide to promote inclusion and acceptance.🧩

    As the global spotlight shines brightly on autism, it’s an opportunity for society to embrace diversity and create a more inclusive world that supports and celebrates all individuals, regardless of their neurodiversity.🌍 

    World Autism Day!
    Spread Awareness and Celebrate differences!

    What is Autism Awareness Month?

    April is an important month for individuals with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) and their families. This global initiative aims to increase understanding, acceptance, and support for individuals with autism. Throughout the month, people around the world come together to raise awareness about the challenges faced by those with ASD and celebrate their unique abilities and contributions.🎗️

    The history and significance of Autism Awareness Month

    Celebrating in April has a rich history that dates back to the early 1970s. It was first established by the Autism Society, a leading advocacy organization, with the goal of promoting autism awareness and acceptance. Over the years, the significance of this month has grown, as more people have become aware of the impact of autism on individuals and their families.#AutismAwareness 🎗️

    The impact of Autism 

    The impact of Autism Awareness Month cannot be overstated. Through educational events, fundraisers, and advocacy campaigns, this month-long initiative has succeeded in raising public awareness about autism and dispelling misconceptions. It has also played a crucial role in fostering a more inclusive society that supports and empowers individuals on the autism spectrum.💡🔵

    Autism statistics and prevalence

    According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, autism affects one in every 54 children in the United States. This staggering statistic highlights the importance of awareness and the need for increased understanding and support for individuals with autism. By shining a light on these numbers, we can work towards a more inclusive world that embraces neurodiversity.💡🔵

    Understanding autism spectrum disorder (ASD)

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    Learn the Signs of Autism.

    Autism spectrum disorder (ASD) is a complex neurodevelopmental condition that affects individuals in different ways. It is characterized by difficulties with social interaction, communication, and repetitive behaviors. Understanding the diverse range of experiences within the autism spectrum is crucial in promoting acceptance and providing appropriate support for individuals with ASD. 💡🔵

    Promoting autism awareness and acceptance

    Autism Awareness Month provides a platform for promoting autism awareness and acceptance. It is an opportunity for individuals, communities, and organizations to educate themselves and others about autism and the challenges faced by those on the spectrum. By fostering a culture of understanding and empathy, we can create a world that embraces neurodiversity and supports individuals with autism.  https://www.cdc.gov/ncbddd/autism/toolkit.html

    Activities and events during Autism Awareness Month

    Throughout Autism Awareness Month, various activities and events take place to promote inclusion and celebrate individuals with autism. Nonprofit organizations, schools, and communities organize walks, workshops, conferences, and other events to empower individuals with autism and their families.  https://crestline.com/c/autism-awareness-month-activities-for-students-and-adults

    Supporting individuals with autism and their families

    Autism Awareness Month not only raises awareness but also highlights the importance of support for individuals with autism. It is crucial to provide resources, services, and opportunities that help individuals with autism reach their full potential. By offering support and understanding, we can create a more inclusive society that enables individuals with autism to thrive.💡🔵

    Resources for autism education and advocacy

    There are numerous resources available for autism education and advocacy. From online platforms to local support groups, families and individuals can access a wealth of information, guidance, and support. These resources play a vital role in empowering individuals with autism and their families, as well as educating the wider community about autism and how to be more inclusive. https://www.goodnites.com/en-us/resources/adhd-autism/autism-society-of-america-partnership

    Spreading awareness beyond Autism Awareness Month

    While Autism Awareness Month is a crucial time for raising awareness and promoting acceptance, it is important to remember that the need for understanding and support extends beyond the month of April.💡🔵

    Spreading awareness and advocating for individuals with autism should be an ongoing effort throughout the year. By embracing neurodiversity and creating inclusive environments, we can truly make a difference in the lives of individuals with autism and their families.#AutismAwarenessMonth

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  • How to turn a gloomy day into a great day!#autismchallenges🧩

     

    Embracing the Rainy Day Adventure

    Rise and Shine, Autism Warriors! 🌟 It’s been a whirlwind of a week, hasn’t it? Meetings, sickness, and the occasional nocturnal wake-up call courtesy of Dad’s heroic endeavors as a firefighter and first responder. But fret not, my fellow adventurers, for when life tosses gloom our way, we’re experts at flipping the script! So, grab your umbrella and join me as we transform this rainy Saturday into a day brimming with culinary delights, sweet treats, and movie magic. Let’s sprinkle some joy into the gloom! ☂️”

    Kickstarting the Day with Aromatic Coffee

    So here we are, Autism Warriors, ready to conquer this gloomy Saturday with a dash of flair and a sprinkle of joy!  Let’s dive into the magic of turning a seemingly dull day into a memorable family adventure.☔️

    Indulging in Heavenly Delights

    First things first, let’s kickstart the day with some aromatic coffee to awaken our senses and fuel our spirits!  With David off shift and ready to join the fun, our family dynamic is already gearing up for an exciting day ahead.☕️

    A Sweet Stop at Crumbl Cookies

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    Cookies for Movie Night!

    Next stop, Crumbl cookies!  Because let’s face it, what’s a gloomy day without some delectable treats to indulge in? Thanks to my persuasive co-workers, I’m now hooked on these heavenly delights, and there’s no turning back!🍪

    Crumbl Cookies Weekly Menu

    For those of you who don’t know, Crumbl cookies has a menu that changes weekly, so don’t look at the calories if you’re on a diet. Check them out: https://crumblcookies.com/ If you have the app, you can order ahead and pick up in a snap.🍪

    Embarking on a Nostalgic Journey

    With coffee in hand and cookies in tow, it’s time to transform our humble abode into a cozy haven of relaxation and entertainment. Cue the movie marathon!  As avid fans of “Stranger Things,” we’ve embarked on a nostalgic journey through the series, reliving the thrills and chills of Hawkins, Indiana. It’s the perfect blend of excitement and nostalgia to brighten up our gloomy Saturday.🎬

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    For those of you who have missed this series, go check it out on Netflix:🎬 [Stranger Things]

    A Day Filled with Laughter and Love

    As the rain pitter-patters against the windowpanes, we huddle together on the couch, popcorn at the ready, and immerse ourselves in the captivating world of Eleven and her gang.  With each episode, laughter echoes through the room, and the worries of the week melt away in the warmth of family bonding and shared experiences.🍿

    Jacob’s Infectious Joy

    Meanwhile, Jacob, our ever-enthusiastic partygoer, revels in the festivities, his eyes lighting up with delight at the prospect of movie night and chocolate chip cookies.  His infectious joy reminds us that even on the dreariest of days, there’s always room for laughter and happiness.🌟

    Cheers to Making the Most of Every Moment

    So here’s to turning a gloomy Saturday into a day filled with laughter, love, and unforgettable memories. With a little creativity and a whole lot of love, we’ve transformed this rainy day into a magical adventure that reminds us of the beauty of family and togetherness. Cheers to making the most of every moment, rain or shine! 🌈✨

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  • How Understanding Autism Spectrum Disorder Can Help. #Autism Challenges🧩

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    World Autism Awareness Day

    Unraveling the Mysteries of Autism Spectrum Disorder

    Welcome aboard this wild ride through the enigmatic world of  understanding Autism Spectrum Disorder! 🎢 Buckle up as we navigate the twists and turns of this fascinating condition that’s as puzzling as it is captivating.

    Imagine trying to decode the intricate workings of the human mind—it’s like attempting to solve a Rubik’s Cube blindfolded! 🤯 But fear not, fellow explorers, because together, we’re diving headfirst into the depths of ASD to uncover its mysteries.

    From deciphering early signs to exploring the latest research breakthroughs, we’re here to provide you with a roadmap through the labyrinth of ASD. 🗺️ And who knows? Along the way, we might stumble upon some unexpected treasures of neurodiversity that’ll leave us in awe.

    So, whether you’re a parent, educator, or just curious about the wonders of the human mind, hop aboard this adventure with us! 🚀 Together, let’s peel back the layers of Autism Spectrum Disorder and celebrate the beautifully diverse minds that shape our world. 🌟

     Diving into the Depths of ASD

    Welcome to the labyrinth of Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), where the human mind becomes a captivating puzzle. Let’s embark on an adventure to understand this complex disorder and unravel its mysteries. From quirky behaviors to unique perspectives, let’s delve into the depths of ASD together.🔍

    Jacob had language delays, sensory issues, he would line toys up and not play with them in an imaginative play. He didn’t play with his brother or other children. We got on several waiting lists and started getting answers when he was in-between 3 and 4 years old. “How to create a personalized schedule for children with autism”

    The Curious Case of Jacob and ASD

    Jacob’s journey with ASD began with a diagnosis at the tender age of 3 to 4 years old. With the help of the fantastic team at TEACCH, Chapel Hill, we navigated the maze of ASD, one step at a time. Well, sort of. Let’s just say we stumbled through the first steps together, trying to figure out this new world. If you want to check them out for yourself go here: https://teacch.com/resources/teacch-tips/

    ASD: A Spectrum of Possibilities

    ASD isn’t your run-of-the-mill disorder; it’s more like a kaleidoscope of colors, each representing a unique set of challenges and strengths. Jacob’s journey with ASD has been a rollercoaster ride of social interactions, sensory sensitivities, and communication hurdles. But amidst the chaos, there’s a beauty in his uniqueness that shines through.🧩

    Signs and symptoms of ASD can be as subtle as a whisper or as obvious as a marching band. From difficulties in social interaction to sensory sensitivities and repetitive behaviors, it’s like navigating a labyrinth of challenges. It’s a puzzle where each piece reveals a little more of the big picture, but sometimes, it feels like we’re missing a few crucial pieces! 🧩🤔

    Cracking the Code: Causes and Risk Factors
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    While the exact causes of ASD remain shrouded in mystery, researchers believe it’s a blend of genetics and environmental factors. It’s like trying to solve a riddle with missing pieces – we have clues, but the puzzle isn’t complete yet. Prenatal infections, genetic predispositions, and environmental toxins are just a few pieces of this intricate puzzle.

    Deciphering the Signs and Symptoms

    Signs of ASD can be as diverse as the colors of the rainbow. From social struggles to sensory sensitivities, each symptom tells a story of its own. Jacob’s journey with ASD has been marked by delayed speech, repetitive behaviors, and sensory overload. But hey, who needs long conversations when you’ve got movie quotes to express yourself?🔑

    I have another post that talks about sameness and sensory issues if you’re interested: Tired and Frustrated Mom! Sensory Challenges for the Autism Spectrum

    Navigating the Diagnostic Maze

    Diagnosing ASD isn’t as straightforward as connecting the dots; it’s more like piecing together a jigsaw puzzle. Parents, caregivers, and medical professionals work together to gather clues and unlock the mystery of ASD. Early diagnosis is like finding the missing piece of the puzzle – it’s the key to unlocking a world of support and intervention.🧩

    Tools for Tackling ASD: Treatment Options

    While there’s no magic cure for ASD, there are plenty of tools in our toolkit to help individuals like Jacob thrive. From behavioral therapy to speech and occupational therapy, each tool plays a vital role in shaping a brighter future. It’s like assembling a superhero team to combat the challenges of ASD – with patience, persistence, and a sprinkle of humor.🛠️

    Jacob has learned to live life with less anxiety and stress by using daily schedules that help with his need for sameness and love of routine and structure. It’s amazing for me too because as he is more independent with a schedule and I have a little “me” time.🗓️

    Navigating the ASD Jungle: Support and Resources

    Living with ASD can feel like trekking through a dense jungle, but thankfully, we’re not alone on this journey. From advocacy groups to educational resources, there’s a wealth of support available to guide us through the wilderness. With the help of organizations like the Autism Society and the unwavering support of family and friends, we navigate the twists and turns of ASD with courage and resilience.

    While there may not be a magic cure for ASD, there are plenty of tools and resources to help individuals and families navigate the journey. It’s like building a bridge—one plank at a time—connecting individuals with ASD to the support and services they need to thrive. 🌉💪

    Cracking the Communication Code

    Communication is the key to unlocking the door to connection with individuals on the autism spectrum. With patience, understanding, and a dash of creativity, we bridge the gap and build meaningful connections. So let’s embrace the quirks, celebrate the strengths, and navigate the labyrinth of ASD together, one puzzle piece at a time.🗣️🤝

    Embracing Neurodiversity: Celebrating Uniqueness

    At the end of the day, ASD is not just a diagnosis—it’s a celebration of human diversity. It’s like a tapestry woven from threads of different colors, textures, and patterns, each contributing to the rich tapestry of the human experience. So let’s embrace neurodiversity, celebrate our differences, and build a world where everyone belongs! 🌍🎉

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